So, after a few craigslist ads to try and find other couples and people that were into a more polyamorous lifestyle, we were turned onto another online adult community called SDC and boy has that been interesting.
It seems that most of the people that belong to this are +40, have kids and mortgages and this is their little naughty thing to do on the weekend. Now, I understand everyone has their jobs and families and no not everyone is a full out of the closet, so to speak, when it comes to their sexuality.
But whats really amazing is the responses I’ve gotten to blogs I’ve been writing over there. I hate to chalk it up to this, but it seems like no matter what it always comes down to age. For some reason, older women and men (that I don’t want to fuck) get offended when I am or any other young, sexy chicks are around and/or have opinions about something.
One blog I wrote was about a single male that we had contacted to meet up with for an M/M/F threesome who ended up standing us up without a phone call or any explanation at all. I posted a blog with his screen name and asking if this was a regular thing with single guys and the responses I got back were incredible. Some people were complaining that I was whining, some people were saying there was something wrong with me.
Then we met up with a really polite, lovely guy with whom we had a really nice experience and I wrote a blog on that over at sdc.com and still a bunch of people wrote in complaining about what I had written and how it was all about me and saying that for a “porn star” how unexperienced I was.
I’m really turned off by the website, if it wasn’t the only source that we could find for write now about likeminded couples, I would cancel our account because my general impression of the “swinger’s” crowd is that of insecure, yet ego driven people that look for any excuse to slam someone else.
Feedback is welcome in the comments…
